The Power of Letting Go: How to drop everything that's holding you back

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Let go of your expectations. When you have expectations, you are setting yourself up for disappointment. Instead, focus on the present moment and what you can control.

I noticed that many of the people I met were trying to market themselves (to me) but didn't know how. Having become a partner, I co-founded a new firm and began writing books. The first was 'How To Be Headhunted'. relationships develop naturally when we no longer feel the need to fix ourselves and everyone around us.As various objects of thoughts and feelings are tested, it becomes obvious that everything in the universe has a vibration and that vibration has a strengthening or weakening effect. The author then dedicates a portion of his book to all the negative feelings that we are bottling up and that we should instead let go of. Suppression and repression: they are two sides of the same coin, with suppression being conscious and repression being unconscious. Denial and projection of our bad feelings into others are both examples to understand your shadow, look at the people who annoy you. What annoys you about them is something you have suppressed in yourself and projected onto them. Let go of your need to control everything. You can't control everything that happens in life, so don't try. Let go and trust that things will work out the way they are supposed to.

The only thing that becomes obvious to me here is that the “obvious conclusions” are simply the author’s very own thoughts. 3. Psychic, Lies &“Scientific Proof” We’ve all had an ex that we can’t get out of our minds. A harmful friendship we hold on to even though it exhausts us. Or even a family member who is toxic . Why can’t we learn how to let go of someone , even when we know they’re not good for us? The author seems to suggest that we all have a bigger drive to forgive and love but to reach there… We must let go first.Learning how to let go of someone you love is the only way you can be the architect of your own life. It’s also one of the most challenging things you’ll ever have to do. Once you overcome that fear , you’ll feel free. You’ll feel relieved. You’ll know that you have the inner strength to conquer anything. And you can begin to forge your own path to fulfillment. How to let go of someone Think about the source of these beliefs - they probably started with an instance/experience when you were younger where you were bad at xxx or when you failed at doing something. Let go of your need to be right. It's okay to be wrong sometimes. In fact, it's often a good thing. Let go of your need to be right and be open to learning new things. I stopped after chapter 3. I will skim the rest as I am leading a book club discussion for it. I thought I was going to LOVE this book. It seemed to align with a lot of what I was already learning through "thought work" which uses concepts from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT).

Let go of your need to be attached to things. Things come and go. Let go of your attachment to things and focus on the experiences you have.pain patterns or incompletions are based on suppressed emotions which can rule our lives for decades. Letting go of someone you love is a process. You won’t learn how to do it overnight, especially if you’ve spent your life holding on to things you loved – even if, deep down, you knew they weren’t right for you. Focusing on moving forward and creating a new story for yourself will help you deal with the inevitable pain that comes after a breakup. It will also help you eliminate blame, develop empowering beliefs to live by and move on with an open heart. I had been roughing it up in my life for a few years so when i saw this at the library, thought I'd give it a read. Once we are able to feel the emotion and then release it, we also release all the negative influence it has over us. #4. How To Let Go